There is no formal teaching for good behavior. One learns merely by observing and implementing them. The same applies to children as well. Good manners are not taught through formal teaching, they are acquired by observing and following them.
Setting a good example is a must for the parents. Parents must be the first role model with respect to behavior and activities. Children will always follow what they see in their daily life as to how their Parents behave, he learns by watching their behavior and attitude.
Use magical words “please, sorry and thank you” often.
When the child sees that the parent apologizes for the mistake committed and says Sorry, he will always do so. When the child observes that the parent says Please when we take things from someone, he will also do so, similarly the child will say Thank you when he gets something from someone.
These magical words should always be encouraged and appreciate the child for his efforts. You can ask your child to help you with your household chores, and just drop a thanks note. This will make him happy and he will be encouraged to help.
Set strong rules for the child, there must always be a routine or a schedule for daily tasks, time for playing, for studying but it must not be too rigid.
- Positive environment should prevail: It is in a safe and positive environment that a child learns and grows. He develops good habits in a positive environment, so create a happy and comfortable environment at home
- Be involved with the child: Spend some quality time with your child, and the child must realize that the parents are always there to guide and assist them. This will make them feel more comfortable
- Be realistic with your expectations: The Parents must be aware that the kid is bound to make mistakes at some point of time and they are to deal with it. The behavior of the parents should be such that it develops a feeling of security in the minds of the children.
- Not to lose control: While handling the child’s mistakes the parents must be patient and calm. They should deal with these situations in a tactful manner, making the child realize that he has made a mistake and simultaneously appreciating the effort made by him. Physical punishment should always be avoided, instead remaining calm and composed is a better option.
The development of a child’s mental health depends on the child’s family members, especially the Parents and the family atmosphere. To raise well-behaved and responsible children the Parents should be willing to invest a considerable amount of time, patience, and energy in instilling and inculcating good values in a child in the future and make him a good person and a better citizen in the later part of his life.